Hygiene is important. Wash, brush your teeth, clean your ears, cut your nails, and pluck those hairs out of your nose. Women notice every flaw so remedy them all.
Approach a woman you find attractive. Some won't be interested, but that's okay. Eventually, you will find a woman who you get along great with and then you will forget all about the women who weren't interested.
Dress well. First impressions are important. And the clothes you wear says a lot about what type of guy you are.
Don't be cheap. If things progress far enough, pay for her drinks, dinner, and her taxi ride home. If she insists on paying her own way, say something like this: "I will get this one, you pay next time." However, if she seems truly intent on paying, don't push back too much. Simply say that you'll pay the next time. Hint: this is a good way to ascertain the possibility of a second date.
Be intelligent to understand her concepts of the conversation.
Avoid sports when you're just approaching women; they're probably not interested.
Ask your sister and mother for advice. They are women, after all. No doubt they'll have some advice for you.
You can wink at her when you first see her, if you'd like.
Know a girl your buddy has connections to? Have him let her know she's on your mind and want to meet.
Honestly, just consider being yourself. Especially the first time you meet. You don't want to end up having her wanting you to be the fake image she first met. She'll be confused and wonder whether you're fake or two-faced. As a matter of fact, when you're being yourself, your confidence and self esteem will take over automatically, making the atmosphere smooth and easy for you.
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